I am sorry about the image you have on yo mind. I should have definitely fault about it, i will try to improve.
On the first sight at check in, i did not mean to explain the house rules just to you and omit your boy friend, you look more interested, that is the cause i did give a bit more attention to your side but i do definitely speak to your boy friend as well.
The night with the police, i definitely did not remember you are out of the apartment. To be honest, i did not expect that you could even leave the house.
On that night, i had a late check in and i just could sleep at 2am. I had also a couple of beers before i go sleep. I did not see you at all around, if i would, i would speak to you for sure.
I do also not understand why you did not spaek to me although you see me? You could ask me for sure what happen etc. Well... Now. All of my potential guest did see what you think about me, to be honest, if i have a bad image about someone, i do prefer to speak it out personally
At the end, i am sorry for the mis-understanding. Take care