We didn`t say that we will arrive at 7. We didn`t set any time cause as I said there could be queue on the border. Here is the my message that I wrote to hots: " Hi. We are approaching lithuania. I think we will be at your place at the evening. After 19 as your said". After doesn`t mean at.
Also there was NO demand from the host to be at her place at definite time. The host only wrote: "For sure i am not gonna be at home from 14.30 till 18-19.. but as long as u find the time we will figure out smthg".