I too reflected carefully before writing the review I did just now; to pick up on a few points you've raised here:
We were extremely respectful of the house and grounds and obeyed all the rules carefully, I personally drilled them into all of my friends.
I'm not sure about the extensive cleaning treatment, but the beds were slept in normally and we only had one couple in the whole group (one of whom is heavily pregnant!).
Unfortunately due to the enforced 10am checkout time, it was impossible to clean up the kitchen to the starting position we took the house in, I do suggest that you make the checkout time later or alter your expectations in terms of how much cleaning people are able to do between waking up on the last day of their holiday and leaving the house. You let me to believe that a big team of cleaners was coming to clean the house, hence why the three last people in our group couldn't even remain by the pool for an extra hour, even if the kitchen had been "full of dirty pans.. " it wouldn't have taken a team of cleaners more than 15 minutes to fully rectify. As explained, it was simply impossible to leave the kitchen in an immaculate state with such an early checkout.
My suggestion is that you only rent the place to very small groups, and carefully manage expectations at the start to avoid mis-understandings; from my side I will be asking more specific questions in the future, particularly where hosts are inexperienced. I've stayed in dozens of Airbnb apartments and houses over the years and the vast majority are excellent experiences for both host and guests, I've also hosted extensively and had the same experience. Good luck for the future.
Wow where to start. The apartment itself is beautiful but the room is small, has a very uncomfortable bed and was very stuffy - the window in the room has no view and looks into an internal shaft. The sheets were scratchy and I could feel the springs through the bed. Dario was out of town, I checked out after the first night, so I had no choice but to leave the keys under the door mat, but immediately messaged him to let him know the location. He is refusing to refund my unused nights, and tried to request 350 euros for his "inconvenience". Avoid this host at all costs.