I am sorry that you found our stay unpleasent. I did say that we were all coming for a wedding, we woke you when we returned from the wedding both nights. Obviously this is going to cause noise, but we're sorry we woke you.
There were no instructions left on what to do with trash, we did not know we were to remove it. All you said about check out was to leave keys on the kitchen table.
About the late arrival, Chloe had messaged you to let you know she was going to arrive late, sometimes these things happen and as a host you should be accommodating towards your guest and not rude about it as you were to Chloe.
Again I apologise if we caused you problems, we were unaware of any of these.