I'm a married software developer living in San Francisco. We've recently relocated from Dallas, TX.
I try to be a considerate guest - communicating clearly about expectations saves a lot of anxiety and guessing.
Jeremy is easy to have around. He always has a smile & he is a "no fuss, no muss", self-sufficient guest. When he left, he left the room & bathroom immaculate... & even stripped the bed & folded the sheets & blanket neatly.
Jeremy was was the CTO for my last company and became one of my best friends. He's thoughtful, considerate to a fault, and if staying at your place would go out of his way to show gratitude and leave it better than he found it. He's one of about three people in the world I'd trust with a key to my house.