I'm a retired guy negotiating "now what", loving it and happily married to Pamela. Our daughter and son-in-law currently live and work in NYC with an apartment in Battery Park. Our son and daughter-in-law live nearby leading their lives remodeling their home, working, barbecuing and taking a dip in their pool when they can.
We travel periodically using timeshare access. I enjoy golf, fly fishing for trout, communicating with deaf people through sign language and following Pamela around. The Kansas City area is a perfect place to test BBQ, which I enjoy doing - best beans in the world. We enjoy nice restaurants, nice people and new adventures. Pamela is a good conversationalist and enjoys meeting new people.
Oh, BTW - our grandchild was born in November in NYC, so we'll ramp up the flights that direction! We need to find a place in NYC to "be a regular" visitor.