Response from Cynthia:
Wow, Wes, I am so sorry you had such an opinion of us. It was me, my husband, and our infant daughter so stayed there, and that is all. We have my parents over to visit several times during the day and that is all. I did not see any checkout instructions in your paperwork other than leave the key in the lockbox and scramble the numbers. I saw doing the towel laundry, dishes, and taking out the trash as common courtesy, so I did that. But I expected that tidying up as you see fit and cleaning up (as in ordering things your way, washing your sheets, and all deep cleaning) to be your duties as a host.
Can you clarify what tidying you would have had us do additional to your instructions?