As a host - I keep a very clean and well organized home. I'm a bit of a neat freak. I'm a pretty hands off though during your visit. I check you in and out but beyond that I won't be around. BUT... if you need suggestions on where to eat, what to do... and in LA, how to get there... Just ask. Trust me, you'll want to know how to get there unless you love sitting in traffic.... maybe you do, I don't judge. :)
As a guest - I'm respectful of your home. Just like in my home, I'm clean and well organized when I travel. Just like camping, leave the space better than you found it. I enjoy getting to know my hosts but am also really good on my own.