I'm sorry I was late and you had to miss your dinner. I think you are projecting or transferring a lot of your own issues onto me- we hardly saw each other after I checked in since you made me feel so ashamed and uncomfortable after my checkin I did not wish to be around you or in your flat. Please consider accepting future guests mistakes as innocent and not premeditated indications of personality disorders and direct personal threats to you and your house rules. Again, I don't know how you could consider me so horrible when basically our whole interaction was you shaming me for being late to check in. And for the record I tried to change the last days of my stay which were more than 5 days as your rules state , which is why Airbnb even permitted me to submit the request for alterations. Maybe in another life we could be friends Silvia - I chose not to disclose the parts of my stay that I found alienating but I guess I have to warn future guests not to get on your bad side or there's no recovering .