Feel out her needs? Oh come on, sweetie. You live in an old, cracked apartment building, in Alphabet City, with heat that you told me you couldn't control (you called it "passive" but I found it "aggressive"), the bathtub drain was clogged with hair, and if the presence of a stainless steel refrigerator is supposed to define "modern" and offset the clutter of said apartment, then great, go for it ... hail to stainless steel. If I ever use AIR BNB again, I will be much more diligent in finding out the details (82 steps up?) about the room I reserve.