hardly
Both my girlfriend and I are self-employed––she more than me, as a graphic designer/painter (MFA@CCAC) I just flounder at various things, like writing. She likes to hit New York once or twice a year and I like to tag along. She likes to make plans, take cabs and I prefer to walk everywhere, with no real purpose except to discover what's around the next corner (or in the case of New york, where's the next great, greasy, pastrami sandwich) . . . I'm 51 and she's 42. I walk all day. She likes to have a place to come home to in the afternoon. I need nothing. she needs everything. together we are neat, minimalist, clean up well (in the kitchen anyway) and . . .